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Author: davie Subject: SOMEONE HELP! MY GF MIGHT BREAK UP WITH ME! YES...BECAUSE THERE IS NO SEX!
lostinchicago1126
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posted on 09-30-2008 at 15:31 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
SOMEONE HELP! MY GF MIGHT BREAK UP WITH ME! YES...BECAUSE THERE IS NO SEX!

I have been dating a girl for 11 months...her past bf had sex with her...We have not...at all. She wants to soooooo badly...and so do I, but I believe in waiting for many reasons including risk of pregnancy, God, and other typical reasons. We've fooled around, but I hate that...and feel bad at the end...
I supposed I've provoked her to a point where she is now considering breaking up with me if we don't have sex.
Our relationship is very healthy...we have so much love for each other...I never knew someone could love a girl as much as I love her...and her love for me is immeasurable as well.

I am soooo scared and so alone...What should I do? It's all black and white here...Obviously I've here the "she's not worth it if that's all she wants you for." But it's not...she's waited so long and sacrificed so much and just claims she can't take it any more.
Please...I need answers...a friend...an opinion...anything. I am so scared to lose her.
pray for me...
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posted on 10-14-2008 at 18:08 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
How to deal with this

Absolutely simple solution:

She really badly wants to have sex with you, right? Really really, deeply badly. So put her to the test:

She marries you in order to get access to that sex she so badly wants. If not, she didn't want it so badly now, did she? If not, she wants to use you for her good feelings, with no substantial obligation. Put her to the test, my friend.

Any excuse she may give you (money, school, not ready, etc.) means you tell her: no sex. If she insists on no marriage, may you have a natural breakup out of a fundamental conflict. It might be tough but this is an unresolvable issue: one wants sex without formal committment while the other does.

When I say formal, I mean just that: formal clothes, formal words spoken, formal tokens exchanged, all important people in your life are in attendance, dressed formally, etc.

Nothing is tough about the act of going down to the courthouse with a couple of witnesses and signing a couple of papers and paying a small fee. That is not what is hard.

I hope this helps.
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posted on 10-15-2008 at 13:01 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Erm...

Should bum her tbf




They love all that. Can't get enough of it. Shout "surprise!" first


Thank me later



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posted on 10-15-2008 at 13:11 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
fanny fright

lostinchicago1126 has what we call in the trade "fanny fright"

Yup he is scared of vaginas
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